Attacks the frame

False compromise

The midpoint between a fair position and an extreme one is called fair.

The first tell

You feel unreasonable for holding firm. That feeling arrives before you can name the move.

What it sounds like

You're selling a bike for 400. The buyer offers 100, then says: Let's be fair and meet at 250.

Say back

Halfway to an unfair offer is still unfair.

If they push

You're refusing to compromise.

I'm refusing that number. 400 is the price.

How this family is disarmed

Reject the premise and restate it in your own terms.

See it in dating and at work

Context packs show this tactic in the settings where it does the most damage, and let you drill it against a timer.

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