Attacks you personally
Labeling
They pin a name on you so they don't have to answer you.
The first tell
You feel boxed. That feeling arrives before you can name the move.
What it sounds like
You ask where donation money goes. They say: Typical cynic.
Say back
Call me what you like. Where does the money go?
If they push
Cynics never trust anything.
I'll trust the financial report when I see it.
How this family is disarmed
Separate the person from the point, then return to the point.
Paid
See it in dating and at work
Context packs show this tactic in the settings where it does the most damage, and let you drill it against a timer.