Attacks you personally
Motive attack
They explain why you believe something and skip whether it's true.
The first tell
You feel suspected. That feeling arrives before you can name the move.
What it sounds like
You say a rent increase breaks the lease terms. The landlord says: You're only saying that because you're short on money.
Say back
My reasons don't change what the lease says.
If they push
Everyone has an angle.
Sure. Clause six reads the same either way.
How this family is disarmed
Separate the person from the point, then return to the point.
Paid
See it in dating and at work
Context packs show this tactic in the settings where it does the most damage, and let you drill it against a timer.